Wednesday, 15 August 2012


Have you ever felt like taking your own LIFE, cos you feel so messed up at some point& the pain whether Physical or Emotional becomes too much to bear & the brains Natural response is to dissociate from REALITY, Have you been called WORTHLESS,UGLY,STUPID,FAT,SKINNY,ANOREXIC,BULIMIC,QUEER,GEEKY E.T.C,Two of the main reasons people are bullied are because of appearance and social status.

 Bullies pick on the people they think don't fit in, maybe because of how they look, how they act (for example, kids who are shy and withdrawn), their race or religion, or because the bullies think their target may be gay or lesbian. Every day thousands of teens wake up afraid to go to school. Bullying is a problem that affects millions of students, and it has everyone worried, not just the kids on its receiving end. Yet because parents, teachers, and other adults don't always see it, they may not understand how extreme bullying can get Bullying is when a person is picked on over and over again by an individual or group with more power, either in terms of physical strength or social standing. Some bullies attack their targets physically, which can mean anything from shoving or tripping to punching or hitting, or even sexual assault. Others use psychological control or verbal insults to put themselves in charge. For example, people in popular groups or cliques often bully people they categorize as different by excluding them or gossiping about them (psychological bullying). They may also taunt or tease their targets (verbal bullying).

INSENSITIVITY is one really not so complex but still very not nice attitude people tend to possess, it might be cos the said person doesn’t want to show emotions or probably they were brought up in a n environment which affected them psychologically and made them Hardened that’s why they tend to shut feelings out and act the way they act which sometimes is “MEAN” One of the most painful aspects of bullying is that it is relentless. Most people can take one episode of teasing or name calling or being shunned at the mall. However, when it goes on and on, bullying can put a person in a state of constant fear which also lead to thoughts & are at risk for mental health problems, such as low self-esteem, stress, depression, or anxiety. They may also think about suicide, self harm & more.

I for one have always been an advocate for “NO SUICIDE” & “NO BULLYING”, I know very much well how it feels to be bullied, I was bullied a lot and I also know the experience isn’t nice at all, I got so messed up one night and I tried to “Overdose” myself with some prescription drugs but it was a failed attempt cos I was saved and I sure I’m happy to be Alive now, even if it gets so bad sometimes I feel like I should stay positive and hope for the best, I wont advice anyone to try suicide, it isn’t & hasn’t ever been an option, never try to take your own life “PLEASE” I’m furious enough that suicide is legal in two states of the U.S but nevertheless please don’t try it cos;

People love you, 
They all want to see you grow & achieve what you want, 
It isn’t the END If you’ve ever felt alone, Depressed, Suicidal, Lost, Scared, Worthless Abandoned or anything of that nature Just have it in mind that You Beautiful, Wonderful Wanted, Don’t quit on yourself, don’t hurt yourself You are worth this world & no one wants or would like to see you SUFFER This way you fell right now is just a phase it will pass People’s minds will definitely change Things will definitely get BETTER!! 

Always have it in mind that somewhere, someone actually loves you is always there for you, Do not do something permanent to yourself over something temporary, you are way better that that to all the bullies reading this “ I hope & pray you change cos all what y’all do is full of hatred, anger and confusion.

In fact, there is no issue here – only rage. I feel so sorry for y’all, because you are made in the image and likeness of God yet y’all cause so much trauma & havoc in the lives of many I’ll just advice Also not to attack anyone in anyway, but first try to understand people before you & judge say mean things to them, work better on yourselves & refine your attitudes.

 Finally to everyone reading this “SUICIDE & SELF-HARM’ aren’t options should never be, LIVE YOUR LIFE, we all LOVE YOU!! (^_^) peace!!

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